Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Monday, 24 August 2015

Summer Loving

 Hopped along with daddy as he went to deliver a training course in Hull.
Kids AM film - two by two. Baby bro refused to be fobbed off with an inferior drink to the tango ice crushes his brothers had!
Trip to Withernsea is a lot further than you think by looking on a map!
Deserted beach. Joseph paddled in the quite turbulent sea and then was lovingly persistent in trying to rescue Anakin who had fallen out of Ben's hand in between the boulders. It was then time for some racing around the circle pavement in Withernsea park. Joseph wanted to beat his PB each time, Ben wanted a head start and Seth of course wanted to race too. They made it look like so much fun that other children wanted to race too!.


Soggy but fun day out with friends at Bolton Abbey and a retreat to Billy Bob's ice cream parlor.

The 52 project 34/52

Just back from a great week in Norfolk. We'll definitely be back. the coast on the north is so beautiful and it's only 3 and a half hours drive away. It seems like we've been so blessed with a fun packed summer that the boys are actually craving some down time. They're are some loud but mild protests when we say we're going out to a park or the beach 'What AGAIN?!' 



On the Wednesday evening of the holiday, Nathan and I drove home; leaving the boys in the capable, though by the end, tired hands of Grandma and Grandad. Nathan was needed and wanted to do some important Bishop duty to conduct and speak at dear Kath's funeral. It was only on the ride home that the sadness of her passing sunk in as for the five days since her moving on the feeling had been one of relief. Her body was clinging on as her body was well ready to go. I wondered why she had to wait those extra weeks. I think there are a few reasons to draw - she needed to get to a point she wanted to go, Dennis needed to get to that point to, where he wanted her to be released though he will miss her desperately and I think another reason is so that there was time for so many people to serve them as a couple and be demonstrative of their love for them. The funeral was lovely. Lots of people were there. she was the eldest of 11 children and had a large family but she was also such a lovely friend to many. Nathan mentioned her love to serve other people, she was truly good and without guile. he spoke so well covering the basic principles of belief that we have about the plan of salvation  which covers where Kath has moved onto now.
 Some of the thoughts I will hold dear bout Kath are - she was quick to compliment - tell you you looked great, gave a lovely talk or lesson,
her stew 
she was a fab Sunday school Class president when I was the teacher, always had a positive introduction or summarising comment.
she spoke to everyone, looked out for the ones who needed that extra attention.
loved her style, always looked just so and had a love of the red lippy like me!
loved a charity shop find, a car boot find or a good ol jumble sale find!
went to every church meeting she could and would always say how marvelous and uplifting it had been.
her desire to do some good in the world 'Dennis, come on we're going to do some good in the world'

Nathan used a quote by Gordon B Hinckley in his talk - 'I have found that the happiest people are those who lose themselves in the service of others.'
I think Kath was a case in point of this. I will miss her but feel a peace that I will see my friend again some day. 


When we returned to Norfolk to meet up with the boys, Grandma reported that Ben had been a missionary!
A girl had taken a shine to him at the play centre and asked him to be her boyfriend!! This is how the conversation went between Joseph and Ben recounting the event.

J: So she asked you to be her boyfriend, what did you say?
B: I said 'Do you go to church and believe in God. She said 'No' so I said 'No way!!'
J: You should have said 'No thank you!'....Did she cry?
B: Like a baby!

I think/hope the last statement was for dramatic effect??!!!





Monday, 15 June 2015

Insta update #4 May ed.

First time ever in a swimming pool! Only taken 27 months! To be fair the swimming pool burnt down before he was born and only just reopened. He pretty much wore this expression the whole session and was extremely quiet! I think he liked it?!
#couldhisarmbandsbeanybigger


Blossom makes me happy
#simplepleasures


Saw a deer today!! Always exciting
. #simplepleasures #notasexcitingasamoose




When you say 'strike a pose' and this is the response!
#lovemyboys #twoyearoldsoaksituplikeasponge



FHE last night was on the words we say. We compiled a list of words and phrases we did not want to hear in our home. After about 20 contributions, Ben pipes up with 'We really must not say 'Oh my gosh, just look at her butt!'' (You know the song right?) Needless to say next week's lesson is on listening to good music! Oh my gosh is on the list too! 
#whenallyouwanttodoislaughbutcant
#kidsaresponges #keepingitreal



Yellow fields make me happy! Blue skies too! Still a bit nippy though. 
#lovespringevenings #simplepleasures



Watching the bros do their stuff in their swimming lessons.



When you're trying to listen to boy number two read and boy number three appears wearing goggles!



Not a particularly original shot - Seth and a mess. But just look at that face!! Love him!
#keepsmeinwork



11/5/15 we began reading The  'real' Book of Mormon (as opposed to the scripture readers) from the beginning. I wonder when we will finish? One of the simple pleasures of life must be listening to your child read with confidence. 


Pretty garden finds
#simplepleasures



And we shall call this photo - I am my mother! 
I remember the times she would clear out underneath my bed and be aghast at the things she found! Haha!
#notshowingyouthedustifoundtheretoo
#mcneeadventures



When the boy loses his trousers after PE and comes home in his PE shorts inside out, the label like a little tail. Man, I love this kid, he laughs we laugh.
#hesonlyseven


Mini McNee and Mini Balckburn at Oakwell Hall


Sleeping on the job.


When your bedroom is being decorated and you get to sleep somewhere much more exciting, like under Mum and Dad's bed!!
#dailyjosephcharles



Bouncing is what I do best!




I got to live out a teenage dream and went to see Take That!! Fabulous!!











Wednesday, 13 May 2015

Finally getting to Mary's Farm

Yipee for May Bank holidays! I love May. The feeling of hope in the air for the adventures which will happen in the coming summer months. 
We made the most of the bank holiday and finally got to go to the infamous Mary's Farm! Which comes with as high a recommendation as there can be from Gemma and Ben Adamson. We went and we know why!

Check out this morning view, for a start!



We arrived late, dusk had already fallen but our friends had taken up our tent early and put it up for us - fabulous. So we only then had to faff around with air mattresses and sleeping bags. The electric heater was a life saver as it was chilly to say the least. The children enjoyed playing in the dark with their friends and toasting marshmallows on Ben's washing machine drum turned fire pit  until bed time. Once settled, Nathan and I had our turn to chat around the fire. 


The sun woke us up at 6:30 and we looked like this! 
Saturday morning was time for
 kicking a football, 
 playing/arguing over the bow and arrow set Nathan bought for the boys (cough *himself)


sitting in the comfort of Sharne's caravan and having 'caravan envy'
getting locked in the shower room, only to find out that the hole is so you can put your finger through to lift up the latch from the other side! (Oh and while we're on the subject of  'dumb things I do' you won't get the shower to work unless you pull the switch by the door - Sunday's findings!)
bacon sandwiches on the camp stove you have to borrow from dan & Nicola because our stove is missing its adaptor!
drizzle turning to that rain which soaks you through
reflecting on why we didn't bring wellies!
hanging out int the Adamson's camper van
Seth deciding that his favourite person of the weekend was going to be James.



After midday as the rain really set in we, headed for Richmond to get some lunch and we'd heard that Her Majesty was in town!



We watched the parade, though at the last minute it was decided that HRH  would arrive by helicopter as it was too cold for her to be out - too true! We wandered around lovely Richmond then took a long drive to find a supermarket which seemed like a waste of time but at least we were dry. Then returned to camp to make a standard camping tea of Stagg and rice! The boys and I then got the call from Mary,as in Mary from Mary's farm, to go and help bottle feed some lambs whose mothers had died ( we had to walk past one of said mothers on the way to the barn)

Ben in particular, loved it!





It wasn't a day with that much to report because of the weather but we made the most of it and the boys slept well and we once again enjoyed late night chats around the camp fire reeling of quotes from Adam Sandler movies.

We woke up and the view looked something like this!


We set off for church, grateful to be in the warmth of the car for the 20 miles to Darlington. We arrived late, 20 minutes late. There were no seats at the back we could sneak into so we had to walk into seats in the middle of the chapel beyond a couple. Five minutes in, Seth who was at on my lap, threw up and continued to do so as I made a mad dash, past aforementioned couple and out of the chapel trying  to stop the spew from landing on the floor! 20 minutes later, we reappeared from the disabled toilets! Seth wearing Ben's hoody and I wearing a cardigan I fortuitously had in the car! Nathan was in corridor, speaking to a chap who fondly was reminiscing about the kindness Grandpa and Grandma had shown him as a lad. I joked (kind of) we should have kept quiet about who we were as not to bring down the name of 'McNee'


Does this face look like someone who feels sick? Nope I didn't think so! As soon a sthe deed was done he felt better. We think he'd had some sneaky sips of last night's hot chocolate in the morning.


We then took a trip to Hurworth to try and find the house where Grandpa and Grandma used to live when Simon was a teenager. 
12 Minister way.
Made the boys have a photo outside it, whilst Nathan worried about what the neighbors would think!



Back in the safety of the campsite there was time for -

some more shooting


some trampolining


some scootering



again and again!




enjoying the sun return literally 10 minutes after the Grays left for home!

taking the dogs for a walk.




Then came Sunday dinner - Elaine style. Farm reared roast beef and lamb, deliciousness.


After we rolled out from dinner, we decided that to pack up and travel home that evening would be the more sensible idea as we were clean out of dry socks and Seth had worn the outfit he was supposed to wear for dad's party the next day. It was the right decision and we didn't leave the campsite until after nightfall at 9:30. 

They'd been more trampolining
(Check out that view and the difference in sky colour form the morning)


Then Farmer Keith came round with his quad tractor and sheep trailer looking for recruits to go and patrol the farm before  dusk.


Only one person slipped over in the sheep trailer  as it was flung side to side ,and it wasn't a child (cough!) They did however, manage to land their bum in the middle of the trailer away from the piled sheep poo!


The kids loved it and I love Ben's face which showed him screaming with delight!





Afterwards the children went off to find the rabbit we'd observed the two Jack Russells in the distance had been fighting over. Mary was on hand to scoop up the deceased and take it to be enjoyed by the farm's ferrets. I actually enjoyed how the children weren't squeamish about this and just accepted that this was real life.



To be true, we'd had a great time inspite of the poor weather. 
As I was retelling the tale of the trailer ride and my fall to the family the day after, someone remarked in jest 'sounds magical!'  But to be honest actually it was. It might sound trite, but really getting away to somewhere stunningly beautiful, with good friends, where you don't worry about the children making too much noise because they're having fun and making lots of memories is exactly that -  magical!
























Sunday, 26 April 2015

The 52 Project 17/52



We got to the temple - yeh! I love how the boys particularly Ben  at the moment get so excited to go. It's especially sweet as the reality is they get to go and sit in the distribution centre for 2 and a half hours whilst Mum or Dad go inside!
Then Mum makes them have a few photos in front of the temple which quite honestly they could do without doing but she cannot!

  




This is the best family one we got haha! 

The Webbs were there too and made great companions for the boys. It's so much easier when there are playmates around and as a group they attracted other children also trapped in the confinements of the distribution lounge!





We also had the pleasure of lovely Louise's company. She is truly good and without guile as described in a talk this past conference.
On the way home I popped in to see Grandma who has been really sick this week. It was nice to just spend a few moments with her. I love that they moved to Chorley so that we can just bob in to see them when we go to the temple. It's totally a blessing of temple attendance for me.
When we arrived home we all snuggled on the sofa and watch Midnight at the Museum 3, then Nathan went out with some fellow Peter pan types to watch the new Avengers film. A lovely day.